Setting Free

    Setting Free doesn't always mean letting go of someone you love. 

   Sometimes, setting free means; Letting all the hatred and pain go away. Let go the trust issues and problems not the person you love. It's the best thing to do to make things right. If you think the relationship is not working or you just keep running around the bush with all your issues, maybe it's the right time now to think and realize your flaws.

   It's not about giving up your principles, but it's all about "Giving up the fight, instead of lossing the ones you loved".

GETTING OVER A RELATIONSHIP AFTER BREAK UP

I can't even say that I feel for you right now if you’ve just broken up with someone. You’re probably feeling like the pain is too much; that you just want to recover, and to know how to get over the relationship as quickly as possible. 

If you have a tendency to suffer from depression then now’s the time to act, before it gets any worse and complicates your recovery.  I’m sure you’re feeling bad enough already, without the added strain of real depression.

Maybe you saw it coming, or perhaps the dreadful news came completely out of the blue. No matter how it happened, you’re probably feeling hurt, angry and in depression. In many ways, it’s just like suffering from a physical illness because you can feel out of control and simply terrible.

The good thing is: YOU WILL RECOVER. At the first quarter of a break up many of us suffer and feeling like we couldn’t stand again after falling. But just believe in yourself and know that you have the strength to do it.

The bad thing is: it may not happen as fast as you want it to.  And it may not happen as fast as the people around you want it to either. The length of suffering depends on how much you want to prolong the agony and burden that you are in to. But if you think it’s enough, you have to do something without thinking of others.

BUT IS IT REALLY TOO LATE?

If there’s any chance at all that you may be able to rescue the relationship and you still want to fight for it, my advice is you have to recall all the things that happened between you and your partner. If you think that your decision about breaking up with your partner just because of that certain issue you fought before is not a valid reason to end a relationship, then you have to go back to where it all started. Sometimes, giving each other a chance to speak out and talk about how you both feel can help you settle things and work it out all over again.

You can address many factors now which will help you to have a good decisions. At the very least, being polite and civil can go a long way. However much you don't like each other right now, it’s too late for arguing.  Arguments will only lead to further hurt and burden to both of you.

3 IMPORTANT THINGS IN THE RELATIONSHIP

The most important thing is to have a good relationship with our partner... Trust, communication and loyalty are the keys to any good relationship because when one of the hose is broken, the relationship loses value. If a feeling of hurt arises, the love may fade away... 

TRUST

It is important in a relationship to win each other’s trust because you have to be able to know if you are sharing your feelings and heart with someone who really care about you and enough to keep certain things between the two of you and not sharing it with other, especially the personal things about you and about your relationship. 

COMMUNICATION

Communication is important because we all know that we were not given the ability to read someone else mind, although life would be so much easier if we could.... and men are particularly bad at knowing how a women is feeling they always need to be told. 

LOYALTY

Loyalty is one of the most important things in the relationship. Without loyalty we cannot assure anything to work. Here is a question for you… Do you want the person you are with to be with someone else? If you do, then start asking yourself if you truly love them. If you think you are still confused, try to find yourself by giving each other the space you need.